If Someone Does Not Want You. Leave
I do not know why as a young, naïve and hyperunrealistic and inexperienced brain that young twenty-somethings think they can change someone’s mind. You can’t. You might change it for a day, a month, but not for the long run.
If someone wants to leave. Let them.
If someone wants you to leave. Leave.
Start your next journey and don’t look back.
Look straight ahead and walk.
If you are busy looking behind you or constantly pulling dead weight as you walk ahead you will not get anywhere. In fact, you will exhaust your energy just trying to stay in one place. Drop the weight and move ahead. It’s like walking up stairs. If you are looking behind you or pulling a load larger than you then you won’t make it up the stairs.
Do yourself and the other person the biggest favor and drop it and move forward. Spend that time and energy to move along the path. Respect yourself.
Also, make a decision and move forward. None of that back and forth. Make a decision for you that is thought out, reach out to everyone- your acquantances, your family, whoever, to help you stick with the decision or to help you keep looking straight ahead. On another note, just because your family or friends don’t agree with your decision. It’s ok. You can reject the disagreement, but they will still help you. You just have to hit a rough patch in the beginning before you sail smoothly out thereafter. To get things in motion is a rough patch. Think about all you have to do to just make a Vietnamese pho recipe together to just get the pieces together is rough. Then you cook it and then you eat and enjoy the fruits of labor. It’s rough in the beginning, but it won’t be like that if you can see where you are going.
This is my morning before breakfast cleaning up thoughts.